Yesterday, I met my best friend, Souher after what seemed like months. Wait, it was months! Anyway, I met her with Michael and it was good cause Michael was being quite a good boy, he wasn't fussing much and he was really friendly. Also, haven't seen him for so long, when she finally did meet him, she was shocked like Omg he's grown! Hell yea he's grown. 8.26kg and 69cm tall, he's just 5 months and a couple of days. My muscles have grown also, not cool yo.
It was fun catching up and what not. By the way, I never realised how darn good Max Brenner's stuff were. We had that Pizza filled with Chocolate, Peanut Butter, Hazelnuts, Marshmellows, Cookie Crumbs and I'm sure there were other stuff. Sounds horrifying, tasted delish!
That's basically what it looked like. Massive yums! And Michael was a real good boy. He was a tad grumpy but he didn't struggle when I tried to get him sleeping. He just, slept. But I do have to say, Souher was so lucky! Usually, Michael might just stare at people that comes to see him or speaks to him or whatever. Or with a lack of sleep, screams at them. But if he's got quite a bit of sleep, he flashes them huge smiles and so far, only Souher has gotten these smiles! Lucky.
And the sweetheart, gave my arms a rest when he started to cry, Souher carried him. My arms, screamed in appreciation and delight. But Souher, although she tried to show her great strength, was evidently struggling. Haha. Yupp, she would discreetly ask Okay so how do you do this if you're out alone?! Yes, it definitely is not easy. Especially since Michael still cannot fall asleep by himself when we're out. He needs to be carried to sleep. Soon, I'm sure you'll get it soon my dear. Then all you will be doing is, sleeping.
So basically, this post is to tell all those ignorant people out there, who think raising a baby is a walk in the park. Go educate yourself before you get rude and pass rude comments especially if the parent bails on your outing and whatnot.
It is not easy to go out alone, if one's driving, with a wailing baby in the car seat for whatever reason and try to concentrate on the road without just blasting the radio to drown out the sounds.
It is not easy to go to Orchard Road during the weekends, find a suitable parking space that's easy to get to, like without steps and whatever.
It is not easy being in crowded places and having a stroller, a diaper bag, and some friends that do not know how to help.
For the mothers that are going through the same thing where your child still have not mastered sleeping by themselves, it is not easy carrying a wailing baby, trying to pacify him or her, prepare milk while carrying them. Or carrying them while pushing a pram with a diaper bag strapped on while looking for a seat in a crowded mall.
And it is not a nice feeling, having your "friends" waiting on you cause your baby is not comfortable and they're just standing there without helping, in fact trying to give advice like "Oh maybe you wanna try carrying him this way or that" when they have no kids.
I mean at least help you dumb schmuck! Even if it means, no passing of comments, pushing the pram and finding a seat for us.
Seriously, I sincerely hope you know who you are. Go educate yourself. Let's see your beautiful walk in the park while you raise your baby. And if you do it alone, only then can you pass your comments.